Win-  I hope you know that the only reason I suggest you take a break, is because I'm worried about you.  You are having real world problems, and the 49ers seem to be a source of consternation for you.  I speak from experience.  You've seen me on here in the past when I've let problems in 49erLand make me extremely unhappy.  Especially when it's confounded with loss of employment, and relationship issues.  I had to seek out professional mental health counseling.  One of the things I learned is that what happens with the 49ers is totally out of my hands.  There's absolutely nothing I can do as a fan to make the 49ers chances of winning any greater.  Also that as bad as I feel when the 49ers lose, the coaches and players feel much worse.  It's their livelyhood, not mine.  Finally.  If watching the 49ers makes me so unhappy on top of everything else, then maybe I don't need to watch them.